(Also see New Horizons Small "Zones Of Peace" Project.)
My working formula -- a balancing act.
1, Defining who and what I am for myself and others;
2. Discovering the best ways for me to be true to myself (and my values) -- and -- to others;
3. Seeking ways to be true to myself, kind and generous to others --- and handle myself in a non-reactive manner.
A work in progress.
More to come.